I took the time to write this book, not because I know everything about relationships, but because I have listened to other men complain and whine about their women for most of my life. I was in the United States Air Force working as a Security Police Officer in the mid 1980’s. Over a four year period I rode with approximately two- hundred partners. The temperatures were often below zero stationed at the Midwest base. While patrolling the base we rarely ventured out of our assigned Dodge minicabs and we were not allowed to listen to the radio because the higher ranking officers believed it lowered our level of vigilance. Taking all of this into account, the only thing that kept us awake on our ten hour shifts was conversation and 99% of our conversation revolved around women.

After serving my term in the Air Force, I became a Police Officer, another male dominated field. I engaged men in conversation and of course, it was always about women. I listened intently to the stories of all these individuals and developed what I have learned to be the truth in regards to the simpleton collective thought of men. Let me reveal a little secret…locker room talk is something a female will never hear or have exposure to. In this book you will be brought into our world. I will introduce you to the way a man thinks and feels about life, love, and women. I will be your personal guide to every man’s mental viewpoint regarding women. This is a world that women will never be permitted to enter and will not understand without an interpreter, as we have developed our style of "man code." I am your translator and will reveal information that the man in your life will never disclose.

Women do not know what is said behind closed doors and know even less about how men think. This book offers insight into how men formulate thoughts on how the women in their life rank on a personal, sexual, physical, and intellectual level. Every man in the world will understand what I am telling you, while women will find it hard to believe. This is a book about how a real man works through issues without the assistance of a psychologist or therapist. It may surprise you, but the way men think is usually not even close to what you think they’re thinking!

Working in a male dominated field for over 20 years, I have heard and been involved in thousands of discussions where I’ve compiled a familiar ground on the various complaints and disappointments men have about their wives and girlfriends. The old saying,“knowledge is power” absolutely takes effect here. The goal of this book is to assist you in making an informed decision on whether to incorporate the suggestions of the men interviewed for this book, and in no way will I tell you what you must do to make your man happy. After all, it is a personal decision whether you care enough about him to go against the crowd and maybe even your friends in order to have a happier relationship.

Keep in mind this book is not politically correct. You will not be subject to the psycho-babble you see and hear on the afternoon television talk shows. You will be exposed to what men think women want to hear in order to stay in their good graces, and what men are truly thinking when they say it. What you will get is the truth, perceived through a man’s view. Frankly, I am surprised that there has not been a hard hitting truth telling book on this subject from a working man's point of view; a book where the author tells the truth regardless of the political consequences.